Caregivers answer the call to accompany individuals in their twilight years as the number of aging adults living alone booms
In past generations, aging adults moved in with their children when they became isolated, and needed more help. But these days, more people don’t have children, and the people who do, often do not want to ask their children to take on more responsibility. Fortunately, Qualicare has met this generational shift by easing the burden on families, and allowing parents and children to maintain healthy relationships.
Linda Larson, a Nurse Manager at Qualicare San Diego and Qualicare’s home office, said that many people do not want to have to provide nursing, and personal hygiene services for their family members. Larson remembered a memorable client’s quote, “I would lay down my life for my mother, but I’m not giving her a shower!” Larson said the client’s mom agreed with her son.
In addition to the work of caregiving, oftentimes children are the main social connections for their parents, which creates an emotional burden on the relationship. A significant aspect of Qualicare’s caregiving, said Larson, is how it improves the social and emotional lives of patients.
“When we first bring in a caregiver to a new patient, I always say to give it two weeks and they’ll be best friends,” Larson said. “Sometimes they say ‘my caregiver is like family’ and they do all these fun things together! I had a client who told me that her mom used to call her several times per day. But after getting a caregiver, now she has to be sure to call her mom at a time that’s good for her, since she and her caregiver are often off doing fun activities.”